How I met sexy women online with 15 simple tips

I like to talk about all aspects of Internet and dating online is a topic I particularly find interesting. This article is to help men to use online dating services more efficiently.

When you are a man and you’re looking for someone using the extraordinary tool which is Internet, you can use online dating services like match.com, meetic.com, etc. or find someone using instant messaging systems like ICQ, MSN, Skype, etc. It is always very easy to talk to anyone while you’re sitting back in your chair at home.

But the main goal here is to meet people in “real life”. Here I’m not talking about “sex only” relations but long term relationships. To improve your chances of success I have some efficient advices that are really specific to that new way of meeting people:

1. Never ask for a photo in the first chatting dialogs, or in the first hours of chatting.
2. Of course never give your last name, home address or job address.
3. Prepare a picture of you, find the best one. Ask people around you to choose for you.
4. Try to get rid of characteristics that are highly selective for you. That could be the tall for instance. There is no need to continue talking with someone if you know something about her that you hate.
5. Try to find a topic that seems to be highly of interest for the person you’re talking to. The best would be to find something that she also likes of course. It’s a lot more easier when you find something in common to talk about. Usually you can rely on the criteria you used to find the person.
6. Don’t talk too much about yourself, try to make her talk about herself.
7. Try to find a physical characteristic of that person that is usually not an advantage for people but that you particularly like. This will give self confidence to the person you’re talking to.
8. Ask questions that goes to any direction about simple things. Questions that nobody never ask. You will that way look like a person that is different from the crowd (e.g “What makes you happy in life ?”, “what do you like above all ?”, etc.).
9. If she gives you a photo, look at it carefully. If you see only the face that means she doesn’t like her body. If the picture is old, that means she’s not pretty anymore. But in all cases be aware that whatever the photo, the real aspect of the person you will encounter will be always very far from what you imagined at first.
10. Don’t give a standard meeting point like a bar, restaurant or theater. Try to be more creative. Propose something like visiting a museum, going for a rollerblade session or going for shopping to find a particular thing like a present you have to find and buy for your mother. For the meeting point, try to find a public place with lots of people.
11. In general you should never lie as you might meet that person. But sometimes a little lie can help very much to get higher in the other person esteem.
12. Tell her that you are currently with someone (even if it’s a lie) but that it just didn’t work out.
13. Never say you haven’t been dating someone for a long period. That will directly kills your image. That’s the worst thing to do. You’d rather tell that you had some experiences (2 or 3) in the past (1 or 2 years long) but that it didn’t work out.
14. When you come to the point you agree on a meeting place, try to get her mobile phone number or give yours.
15. Before meeting the person try to speak to her on the phone. If you don’t have the number, be a little late so that she calls you.

Finally keep in mind that 15 or 30 minutes of your life is nothing. You could find a friend, a lover or only talk to an interesting person.

Stumble it!